A couple of nights ago, my friend, Lou, sent me a link via Facebook to this Guardian article regarding the complaints the BBC have so far received about children’s television presenter Cerrie Burnell, who was born with only one hand. At the time of writing, the article reports, the BBC had so far received nine official complaints from parents claiming that they cannot let their children watch because such a sight could “possibly cause sleep problems”, that toddlers find her scary and that — shock, horror! — they are being forced to discuss “disability” with their children before they are ready.
My immediate response was to shrug and say to myself, “Yeah, well, that’s stupid people for you.” My experience of disability (I have Type II Spinal Muscular Atrophy) has, generally speaking, been pretty good. I have always found people on the whole considerate and understanding, but, yes, there are idiots with prejudices and insecurities of their own. The relatively small number of complaints, however disturbing it may be, speaks volumes. The vast majority of parents watching this show, I’m sure, handled their children’s questions ably and got on with enjoying the show.
Which took me in a slightly different direction than some might expect. The Guardian article is entitled “It Is Parents Who Can’t Face Disability on TV” [italics mine]. Parents. Not some parents, it would seem, but if not all of them, a fair few, at least. Nine, in other words.
Now don’t misunderstand me, Lucy Mangan makes some excellent points — and the article is definitely worth reading — but there are a couple generalisations/inaccuracies that I feel need to be addressed.
Firstly, to reiterate the point I’ve already made, this was a very small number of parents. Lucy mentions that there were “many more blog postings” regarding the story, none of which she provides links to, and none of which I’ve read. Knowing the blogosphere as I do, however, I’m quite certain that those complaining about this television presenter will have been in a very small minority. There will be plenty of people shouting them down.
Secondly, on the point of parents not being able to “face disability on [children's] TV”… well, frankly, this is actually quite inaccurate. In the early 1980s I, in my electric wheelchair, wearing my Milwaukee spinal brace, appeared for eight weeks on the Yorkshire television children’s programme Book Tower. I was very visibly disabled, and the spinal brace in particular will no doubt have raised a few questions in some households. Yet, as far as I know, there were no complaints.
More to the point, the producer of Book Tower at the time was a very talented lady called Anne Wood. Anne went on to form her own production company — Ragdoll Productions, the company behind, amongst other things, the Teletubbies. Anne’s work in the intervening years has quite often focused on preschool children’s television, with programmes such as Rosie and Jim, Brum and others, and a number of times that I know of (and, not having kids of my own, I’m not exactly an avid watcher of her programmes… no, really!) children with disabilities have featured.
Disability is not something that is new to children’s television. In fact it seems to me that disability is featured more on children’s television than any other area. Even many non-Ragdoll Productions shows for children have and do feature people with disabilities (Balamory springs to mind.)
So, in conclusion, yes — there are stupid people who will try to inflict their stupidity, bigotry and insecurities on others. The best thing we can do is shame them, talk about the ridiculous statements they make and, even, I would suggest, heap ridicule upon them. But when we respond to such comments/complaints we really need to be careful that we don’t inadvertently alienate the very people who are on our “side”. The vast majority of parents are intelligent and responsible, and whilst television could do a much better job with regard its representation of disability, children’s television has been at the forefront for a number of years, without a complaining parent to be heard.















As a kid, I remember HATING any book, movie or TV show that I felt had been dumbed down for me. And if your child is sensitive enough to be disturbed by the sight of a person with a disability, then it’s probably a sign that he or she is ready to learn about it!
I couldn’t agree more… kids are usually a lot smarter than (some) adults give them credit for but, as I say, I think the majority of parents “get” this — remembering, as you do, how they felt as children themselves.
Thanks for the comment, Toni
Video clips! Clips or it didn’t happen.:D
Alas, no one in our family had a video recorder (remember them?) back then… If anyone has a copy, however, I’d love to hear from them!
Your link to the article doesn’t work (though I think I’ve already seen it, you linked it in a tweet or something.)
Pretty much irrelevant to your post, but I have to say that your avatar (or at least, the old one, I think you’ve changed it recently) has always reminded me of Stephen Hawking because of the slight tilt of your head. I figure it was just coincidental due to the camera angle, but now I wonder whether it has something to do with your disability.
I have cerebral palsy, the most obvious symptom of which is that I walk rather strangely. My mum tells me that people sometimes stare at me, and that offends her. I’ve never noticed it myself though. Most people don’t mention it, I don’t know whether they’re afraid it would be impolite to ask what’s wrong or they just aren’t particularly interested in the precise name of the disability (I wouldn’t be interested either.) Other people assume it’s a temporary injury and ask soon after they meet me what happened.
There was one guy who was convincing himself he was in love with me (though in my opinion we didn’t know each other very well) who never asked and then one day it came to light that he had just assumed it was ALS or something along those lines. That was weird. I wonder if the whole thing was just a nurturing instinct brought on by my presumed fatal illness.
Thanks for spotting the dead link, Angela. Fixed, now.
Stephen Hawking… LOL… and there the similarity ends!
Yes, you are quite right to guess that the tilt of my head is related to my disability. I have a scoliosis — partially corrected by a spinal fusion — and the tilt of my head pretty much compensates for the curve in my spine.
I tend to find that people feel quite comfortable asking me about my disability once they get to know me — those that feel they need to, that is. As I’m sure you can understand, my disability is quite severe (though thankfully, if my specialists are to be believed, unlikely to be life limiting!), so it’s fairly obvious, and, yes, it’s not something I find myself talking about all that often. I’m happy to explain the details when necessary but after 42 years with the condition it’s not exactly at the top of my list of conversational priorities LOL
Nurturing instinct… LOL. You know, I think one time it went the other way for me. In my teens, I knew a girl who, it turned out, had a cousin with Duchenne muscular dystrophy. The appearance of my condition can be quite similar to Duchenne but, of course, there was a significant difference that I didn’t feel I could point out at the time. I was young and it just seemed too tactless. We’d been getting quite friendly and then suddenly she started putting rather more distance between us. I tried to find out what the reason was but she wouldn’t discuss it.
Taught me a few valuable lessons — one of them being to always make sure people know that my condition isn’t progressive!
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Ah, yes, I have been rather lax in that regard. I shall endeavour to remedy it poste haste.
I think that’s just weird. It would never occur to me to complain about that. In fact, it wouldn’t have occurred to me that anyone else would either.
Sleep problems due to seeing a disabled person? I seriously doubt that. If it were to happen, I think it would more likely be a result of the parents’ (over)reaction.
And I don’t understand anyone feeling “forced to discuss disability with their children before they are ready.” Before they’re ready? Good grief! We’re not talking about shagging here! LOL
Sorry for the rant. It just… The Stupid! I burns!
It is stupid — but what really bothers me is the really generalised tone to the article. It seems to blow it massively out of proportion, making out that all parents are like that when, in reality, the vast majority actually very sensible and responsible. There are plenty of stupid people about but this woman, for me, came pretty close to tarring everyone with the same brush. That doesn’t do anyone any favours.
Great typo there… you mean to say that only a slow minority overreact like that?
Bugger… that’s voice recognition software for you! Fixed, now LOL. Thanks, Angela.
I completely agree! Obviously.
LOL. Obviously