Unlike Me.
May 4, 2008
It was suggested to me a while ago by friend and screenwriter Sean Hood that I write a blog post concerning my approach to writing characters who are very different to me — his example being an atheist writer having to tackle a character of faith. It was a fascinating suggestion, and I set about considering it deeply. So deeply, in fact, that two months have gone by and I still haven’t formulated a solid idea of how I approach this problem!
Writing, for me, is about making it personal, I suppose. When I “meet” or, even, “become” (I like the role-play feel of the first person) a new character, I immediately try to find something in them that I can relate to. Something significant that may not be quite so obvious to the reader. If I were writing the character of a Catholic priest, for example, I would probably look at the questions he asks himself during those long nights when sleep won’t come and see if, perhaps, they are similar to my own. I would look at the man (for, contrary to rumour, I am also a man
) and approach it from that angle, examining his back story to see how he arrived on his chosen path and also to see if, under different circumstances, I might have made different choices.
But this makes it all sound very methodical and thought-through, and it isn’t quite like that for me. This isn’t something that would be done “on paper”. I find my character and I live with him for a while, thinking about him, studying how he behaves and why in my head. If I can get to the “why”, I’m there. I don’t work at it from that point on, I just let him be who he is.
After twenty years of writing, it’s not something I really think about anymore — not in the usual sense of the word. It’s quite an… organic process, I suppose.
So, how do you approach writing a character with a very different perspective to your own?
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May 4, 2008 at 11:09 pm
I don’t know how I write characters, Gary - I just feel them. I do ask my wife for advice about the way a woman would say something, they do speak very differently from men, so I do find them hard to flesh out, so to speak.
May 5, 2008 at 10:13 am
It’s a peculiar process, isn’t it? I often use the phrase “meet my characters” and non-writers tend to give me funny looks, but that really is what it’s like for me. I meet them and then spend time getting know them.
May 5, 2008 at 4:05 pm
It’s a tough imaginative challenge but one of the great rewards of the writing process.
May 5, 2008 at 4:20 pm
Sure is, Sean… so how did it work out with the Stigmata II script?
May 5, 2008 at 9:37 pm
Well, I don’t write characters. I’ve tried but they always turn out to be slightly altered versions of me. I just don’t have a talent for it (maybe someday) but I find the topic interesting.
Do you find it difficult to write children? Any thoughts on that, specifically?
By the way, you got my vote even before I read this.
May 6, 2008 at 8:52 am
Characters should be slightly different versions of the writer, Lottie. Even the ostensibly very different ones lol. That’s how we make them human; by stepping into the role and shaping them with our own experiences.
I think
I actually blogged about the whole writing children thing here. You might find it interesting.
Incidentally, did you click on the vote for me button? It doesn’t seem to have registered
May 6, 2008 at 12:25 pm
Maybe I’m not so bad at it after all.
I don’t know how I missed your post on writing children. Maybe it was when I had trouble getting your site to load. Anyway, I’ll have a better look later today. I have to rush off in just bit.
Come to think of it, when I clicked the button to vote for you, it took ages for it do anything. Maybe some kind of error? I’ll do it again. Let me know if it works this time.
May 6, 2008 at 4:16 pm
Maybe the post was written when you and that Mike bloke were getting hitched?
Not sure if it worked… doesn’t seem to have, but it may just be a crap service!
May 6, 2008 at 6:46 pm
Hmmm… I was able to go through the voting process without a hitch. I will click on the darn thing every day until my vote registers.
May 7, 2008 at 9:34 am
lol… don’t wear your mouse out!
May 9, 2008 at 3:49 pm
I do the same thing you do — I try to find a piece of the character that Ic an relate to, as well. Sometimes it becomes difficult for me, though — and sometimes the character begins to show too many of my own character traits, without trying to let them. Do you have this problem? How do you counteract it? Great blog, btw… =)
May 9, 2008 at 4:18 pm
Yes, I do occasionally have to deal with this problem. Not as much as I used to, however…. I’ll have to have a think about how I counteract it, though. Writing’s so intuitive for me, now, that it isn’t always easy to pinpoint how I do what I do, you know? It might make a good blog post, though, so keep checking back
Really pleased you like my blog. And thanks for commenting — it’s always great when people take the time to contribute.